何为“绅士”(gentleman)?按英文的解释, 绅士乃优雅、上品、宽大、稳健、亲切、有礼之男士。用这样的标准来衡量现今的年轻人,我们不能不惊讶地发现,够格者寥寥。那么,年轻的绅士们都躲到哪儿去了? 我接触过不少真正的绅士,然而遗憾的是,他们大多是我的长辈。他们都是从贫穷时代走过来的,自然没有英国绅士那套高礼帽、文明棍、西装革履的行头,但即使身穿打着补丁的蓝布中山装,他们的领口和袖口都始终是笔挺和光洁鉴人的。他们的双肩从没有一片头皮屑,头发不论长短都一丝不苟地梳理整齐,叠得方方正正的手帕从不离 What is a “gentleman”? According to the English explanation, a gentleman is an elegant, superior, generous, steady, friendly and courteous man. Using such standards to measure today’s young people, we can not but be surprised to find that there are only a handful of those who qualify. So, where are the young gentlemen hiding? I have met many real gentlemen, but unfortunately, most of them are my elders. They all came from an era of poverty. Naturally, there was no British high-level gentleman hat, a civilized stick, and a suit. However, even wearing a patch of blue cloth tunic, their neckline and cuffs are always straight and smooth Kam people. Their shoulders never have a piece of dandruff, regardless of the length of the hair are carefully and neatly folded, fold the square handkerchief never leave