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当我第一次听说“无性夫妻”这个词的时候,我很吃惊,在我的意识里,除非夫妻一方有难以治愈的、使夫妻性生活无法进行的疾病,才会出现这种状况,可后来我所知道的情况却是“无性夫妻”更多的是指那些生理上绝对正常,却没有两性亲密行为的夫妻。一些人是因为情感出了问题,长久没能解决,性也就渐渐疏离;另一些人是因为一方想离婚,另一方却不愿意离,婚姻其实已经名存实亡,自然就成了无性夫妻;还有些人也许自结婚之初便有‘无性约定’,要的只是婚姻的形式,其原因和目的各种各样,有的是性心理异常,对性极端厌恶,有的是某种利益的交换,还有的是同性恋者选择的一种掩护性生活方式……对这些没有爱情的“无性夫妻”的状态,不管是自愿还是被迫,在我看来都有
When I first heard of the word “asexual couple,” I was surprised that in my mind, this would happen unless there is an intractable disease that can not be done by the couple on the other hand The situation, but then I know the situation is “asexual couple ” more refers to those who are physically normal, but no gender intimacy couple. Some people because of emotional problems, long time failed to solve, sex will gradually alienated; others because one party wants to divorce, the other party is not willing to leave, marriage actually exists in name only, naturally became asexual couple; and some People may have sexually apologetic since the very beginning of marriage. What they want is just the form of marriage, for a variety of reasons and purposes. Some are psychologically abnormal, extremely repugnant to sex, some are exchange of interests, and others are homosexuals The choice of a cover-up way of life ... ... these loveless “asexual couple ” status, whether voluntary or forced, in my opinion, have