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近年来夫妻向我询问的问题已同10年前大不相同。10年前,当婚姻遇到危机时,夫妇的第一反应常是:离婚!但现在,他们更愿使关系永久化。他们常向我请教平息婚姻矛盾的各种良策。这里要讲的正是他们最感兴趣的若干问题。 1.我们夫妻都上班,还自己照料孩子,没有时间和精力做爱,该如何解决这种矛盾? 通常,对这问题的第一解答是:请人看孩子,夫妻去旅馆度周
The question the couple asked me in recent years has been quite different from 10 years ago. Ten years ago, when a marriage was in crisis, the couple’s first reaction was often: divorce! But now they are more willing to perpetuate the relationship. They often ask me various good policies to quell marital conflicts. Here are some of the issues that are of most interest to them. 1. We are both husband and wife to work, but also to take care of their children, there is no time and energy to make love, how to solve this contradiction? Usually, the first answer to this question is: please look at children, husband and wife go to the hotel for weeks