唐朝有两位禅师,一位名叫寒山,一位名叫拾得。两个人曾经有过这样一段精彩的对话——寒山问拾得:“世间有人谤我、辱我、轻我、笑我、欺我、贱我,当如何处治?”拾得回答说:“你且忍他、让他、避他、耐他、由他、敬他、不要理他。再过几年,你且看他。”一件事情发生了,不论你当时的感受如何,对于这件事的好坏都不要急于下定论,把它放下,过一段时间你再回过头来看,或许它已经像沙粒一样不值一提了。这就是“看得开,才能过得好”的含义。 There are two Zen master in the Tang Dynasty, one named Hanshan, a name picked up. Two people had had such a wonderful conversation - Hanshan asked: “Some people slander me, shame me, light me, laugh at me, cheat me, cheap me, when to deal with?” “Pick up and replied: ” You put up with him, let him, avoid him, resist him, respect him, do not ignore him .A few years later, you look at him. “One thing happened, no matter how you feel at that time, Do not rush to the conclusion of the matter, put it down, after a while you look back, maybe it has not been as worth mentioning as the sand. This is the meaning of ”being able to read well and get well".