与相同村落中的普通家庭主妇相比,农村传统赘婚家庭中的赘妻除了承担“儿媳”“妻子”“母亲”“女人”的普通角色外,往往还承担着招赘婚姻带来的“女儿”“女丈夫”“女父亲”与“女男人”等多重角色。父母、丈夫、子女,乡村社会对赘妻的角色期待各异,因之产生的角色距离与角色冲突使赘妻群体长期承受着巨大的身心压力,从而成为农村社会“高危”人群。导致赘妻多重复合角色的根源在于家庭权力,只有将家庭权力赋予农村社会认可的户主青壮年赘婿,才能让赘妻回归家庭主妇的普通角色,实现角色松绑。 Compared with ordinary housewives in the same village, the redundant women in the rural traditional super-married families often bear not only ordinary roles of “daughter-in-law”, “wife”, “mother” and “woman” Uxorilocal marriage brings many roles such as “daughter”, “female husband”, “female father” and “female man”. The roles of parents, husbands, children, and rural society look different from each other. As a result, the roles and distance between the parents and husbands, children and the rural community are exposed to enormous psychological and physical pressures, thus becoming the “high risk” population in rural areas. The root cause of the redundant multiple roles of the wimp wife lies in the family power. Only when the head of the household approved by the rural community gives birth to young adults, can the wife wife return to the normal role of the housewife and realize the loosening of the role.