中学生在交往中普遍存在同学之间交往比较大胆,但与陌生人之间的交往比较羞怯,缺少与社会人事多接触的机会等问题。对于哪些请求是可以拒绝或者必须拒绝比较模糊,对于如何礼貌的拒绝,缺乏有效的策略和方法。 Middle school students have a lot of problems in their communication, such as more daring interaction between students, more shyness with strangers, and lack of opportunities for more contact with social personnel. There is a lack of effective strategies and methods for what kind of refusals or refusals of objections are necessary.