英国哲学家洛克说:“父母不宣扬子女的过错,则子女对自己的名誉愈看重。他们觉得自己是有名誉的人,因而会更小心地去维护别人对自己的好感好评。若你当众宣布他们的过失,使其无地自容,他们愈是觉得自己的名誉已受了打击,设法维持别人好评的心 British philosopher Locke said: "Parents do not promote their children’s fault, the more valued their children’s reputation, they feel they are reputable people, so they will be more careful to maintain the goodwill others feel good if you publicly announced Their negligence makes them selfless, and the more they feel that their reputation has been hit and they try to maintain the hearts of others