心理学家通过一项对两万多名青春期孩子的研究发现:孩子在12岁以前很愿意与父母交流他们的想法,但之后却有明显的变化。尽管父母对孩子的态度一如既往,但孩子有问题和想法时,首先是与朋友谈,其次是找老师谈,与父母交谈的次数和时间越来越少。不少父母也明显觉得孩子“不听话”了,彼此交流起来越来越难。父母究竟该如何与青春期孩子沟通,并使他们听话呢?心 A psychiatry study of more than 20,000 adolescent children found that children were much more willing to communicate their ideas with their parents before the age of 12, but then changed significantly. Despite their parents’ attitude towards their children, as always, when children have problems and thoughts, they first talk with friends, secondly with teachers and talk less and less with their parents. Many parents also obviously feel that children “disobedient ”, and more difficult to communicate with each other. How should parents communicate with adolescent children and make them obey?