我们每个做家长的,都会遇到自己的孩子与人家的孩子打架或吵架的事儿。小孩子之间打打闹闹是常有的事儿,是孩子生理发育和心理发育的正常反应。据儿童心理学家研究,婴儿出生时就有原始的情绪反应,这是由他的生理需要和自卫本能引起的。1～3岁的婴儿,积极情绪逐渐增加,社会性情感开始出现,但情绪和情感表现为易变、易冲动,也易受别人感染。因此,当同样年龄段的儿童在一起玩的时候,为争一把小铲或一件别的什么玩具而撕扯起来,这也完全是正常现象,过不了多一会儿他们就忘了。做家长的,要正确地、冷静地对待孩子之间的打 Each of us as a parent, we will encounter their children and other children’s children fight or quarrel thing. It is not uncommon for children to fight, and is a normal reaction to the child’s physical development and psychological development. According to the study of child psychologists, a baby has an original emotional response at birth, which is caused by his physical needs and self-defense instincts. 1 to 3 years old infants, positive emotions gradually increased, social emotions began to appear, but the emotional and emotional performance as volatile, easy to impulse, but also vulnerable to infection. So when children of the same age were playing together, it was normal for someone to fight for a spatula or something else, and it would not be too long for them to forget. To be parents, we must correctly and calmly deal with the fight between children