有个寓言把人比做刺猬,在寒冷时他们要相互靠近以取暖,而靠近后他们又会刺伤对方,最后,只得满足于维持一个不远不近的距离。其实我们每个人都有刺,但是有些人似乎身上的刺特别多,心理学上把这些“身上长刺的人”统称为攻击性较强的人。攻击性行为,是人体内的一种能量的外在表现。对于年龄较小的孩子来说,有时表现 There is an allegory that compares people to hedgehogs, that they need to be close to each other in the cold to keep warm, and that by the time they are near they can stab each other. Finally, there is only contentment to maintain a distance not far behind. In fact, each of us has thorns, but some people seem to have a particularly large number of thorns. Psychologically, these “people who are long thorns” are collectively referred to as those with strong aggression. Aggressive behavior is an external manifestation of one’s energy in the body. For younger children, sometimes performance