如今有些人,特别是自我感觉良好的男人们,惯以“万事不求人”为处世原则,以此来体现独立自主、自立自强。这无疑是一种进步。然而,凡事都有两个方面,在“不求人”中,也易封闭自我,从而失去了许多交际、交友的机会。生活中向他人表现出小小的示弱与求助,常是改善人际关系的第一步, Nowadays, some people, especially those who feel good about themselves, are accustomed to using the principle of “doing everything for nothing” as the principle of living in order to reflect their independence and self-reliance. This is undoubtedly an improvement. However, there are two aspects to everything. In “Do not ask for help,” it is also easy to close ourselves, thus losing many opportunities for communication and making friends. In life to show others a little weakness and help, often the first step in improving interpersonal relationships,