交谈时,人们最先注意到的是对方的头部,因为头部集中了所有的表情器官。如果你想知道别人想什么,就得从“头”开始。心理学家和行为学家研究发现,人们把脑袋偏向一边,说明对谈话内容很感兴趣,正在集中注意力,全神贯注地倾听,甚至完全被对方吸引,也就是“侧耳倾听”的状态,小孩子听故事时,就是这样。头挺得笔直,说明他保持中立态度,对谈话内容或说话的人,仍在仔细审视和评价,因此,这个时候并不适合让对方回答决定性的问题。低头向下,往往说明一 When talking, people first noticed each other’s head, because the head concentrated all the facial organs. If you want to know what others think, you have to start with “header ”. Psychologists and behavioral studies have found that when people put their heads aside, they are very interested in the contents of the conversation, are concentrating, listening attentively, or even being completely attracted to each other, that is, “listening” That’s the way children listen to stories. His head is straightforward, indicating that he is still neutral and is still scrutinizing and evaluating the contents of the conversation or the speaker. Therefore, it is not appropriate at this time for the other side to answer the decisive question. Looking down, often shows one