丈夫加班到第二天上午10点才回家,担心一夜的妻子问:“怎么这么晚?”丈夫很累,简单地回应说:“项目的事。”妻子顿时心生不满,继续追问,直到丈夫不耐烦地说:“行了,说了你也不懂!”一场争吵就这样拉开了序幕。之后,丈夫找哥们儿抱怨:“女人真是麻烦!”妻子对闺蜜诉苦:“他根本不爱我了。”生活中,男人和女人间常会存在沟通障碍。从认知心理学角度讲,女人说话平均使用5种语调,但男人一般只用3种,所以,男人听不出女人的某些语调变化,认为她老在重复同一个话题。 Husband overtime until 10 o’clock the next morning to go home, worried about a night’s wife asked: “how late? ” The husband is tired, simply replied: “The wife’s sudden dissatisfaction, Continue to question until her husband said impatiently: ”OK, said you do not understand!“ A quarrel thus kicked off. After that, the husband looks for buddies and complains: ”The woman is really troublesome!“ The wife sued her girlfriends: ”He did not love me at all. " In life, there are often communication barriers between men and women. From a cognitive psychology point of view, the average woman to use five kinds of tone to speak, but men generally only three kinds, so a man can not hear some of the woman’s tone changes, that she is always repeating the same topic.