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深谙“说话之道”的台湾著名主持人蔡康永日前在广州、上海等城市为其作品《蔡康永的说话之道》开签书会并在中山大学举办讲座,吸引了诸多年轻粉丝和职场白领到场听讲。他在讲座上演讲了这样一段给人启示、令人深受启迪的名言:“贵人不一定能改变人生,外表不一定能决定魅力,但是说话可以。把说话练好,是人生最划算的事。”在笔者看来,说话之道,更是为人之道。尤其在职场,上司、下属、同性、异性之间如何相处?不少职场人士不懂得说话,尤其面对上司、同事误解时,容易进退失措,造成心理上的抑郁。蔡康永在娱乐圈中的生存智慧,正好可以给遭此境遇的人以启发,而对于初涉职场的大学毕业生,更是字字珠玑,句句经典。
Well-versed in “talkative ” well-known Taiwanese host Kevin Choi recently in Guangzhou, Shanghai and other cities for his work, “Kevin Tsai’s Road to Speak” and signed a book at Sun Yat-sen University, attracting many young fans and the workplace White-collar workers to attend the scene. He gave a lecture on this enlightenment, inspiring quote: “elegant people may not be able to change life, the appearance may not be able to determine the charm, but the words can be. Speaking practice, is the most cost-effective in life Things. ”" In my opinion, the words of the road, it is a human way. Especially in the workplace, superiors, subordinates, same-sex, heterosexual how to get along? Many workplace people do not know how to speak, especially in the face of superiors, colleagues misunderstood, easy to retreat, resulting in psychological depression. Cai Kangyong survival wisdom in the entertainment circle, just to be inspired by the people in this situation, and for the university graduates involved in the initial job, it is more abstruse, sentence classic.