父母和孩子交流时应平心静气,不要因为孩子与自己的想法不一样而火冒三丈,要给孩子申辩的机会,让他们说出自己的真实感受。如果双方分歧确实很大,父母不妨放弃争论,再找合适的机会和子女沟通。 Parents and children should be calm when communicating, not because children are not the same with their ideas and fury, to give children the opportunity to defend, let them tell their true feelings. If the differences between the two parties are indeed large, parents may wish to abandon their arguments and find suitable opportunities to communicate with their children.