《仪礼·士昏礼》是我国关于婚礼的最早记载,以它为代表的中国传统的婚恋观念虽然含有包办婚姻、买卖婚姻等消极因素,尤其对女权的禁锢一直为人们所诟病,但我们不能因此全盘否定古代婚恋制度。《仪礼·士昏礼》主要包含父母之命、媒妁之言、纳征之聘、阴阳之合、社会宣示等精神要义,它对现代大学生树立正确的婚恋观启发良多:恋爱重过程,更应重结果;婚姻强调个人幸福,更应强调家庭责任;性观念从封闭走向开放,更应从开放走向持重。 “Rituals and flirtations” are the earliest records about weddings in our country. The traditional Chinese concept of marriage and love, which is represented by it, has always been criticized by people, although it contains negative factors such as arranged marriages and sale of marriages. Can not therefore completely negate the ancient marriage and love system. “Rituals and flirtatious rituals” mainly include the mothers and fathers of the family, the words of the media, the employment of the nephew, the combination of yin and yang, the social declaration and other spiritual meanings. It has many enlightenments for the modern college students to establish the correct view of love and marriage: Should be re-outcome; marriage emphasizes personal happiness, but should emphasize family responsibilities; sex concept from closed to open, it should be from open to hold.