在一次由家长和学生共同参加的座谈会上，学生们在谈到自己心目中理想的父母形象时．几乎是异口同声地说；“父母应该首先是朋友。只有建立了朋友关系，有事时才能跟父母说。”一位女学生向在座的父母建议：请蹲下跟孩子说话。思想感情交流的首要条件是平等。不将对方放在自己 At a symposium attended by both parents and students, students talked about their ideal parenting profile. Almost unanimously said: “Parents should first be friends, and only established a friend relations, when something can tell their parents.” A female student to the parents here suggested: Please squat to speak with the child. The first condition for the exchange of thoughts and feelings is equality. Do not put each other on their own