一、前言眼下,许多家长把大部分精力、物力、财力都倾注在孩子身上。但是,不少家长的一片苦心最终未必都能获得理想的回报,有时候,孩子反而成了父母的心病。那么,如何对待孩子的成长呢?我认为主要有以下几个方面:一是家长对孩子要多一些平和,少一些苛刻,以平常心对待孩子的成长。二是家长要遵循孩子的成长规律,切勿拔苗助长,无限加压。另外,家长要在孩子的成长过程中积极加以引导,对孩子不能一味地拔高要求,加重负担,但也不能放任自流,撒手不管,什么都由着他。针对以上情况,我们于2005年9 I. Preface Nowadays, many parents devote most of their energy, material and financial resources to their children. However, a lot of parents do not always have a painstaking rewards can be the ideal return, and sometimes the child has become a parent’s heart disease. So, how to deal with the growth of children? I think the following aspects: First, parents should be more calm and less harsh on children, with a normal heart to treat children’s growth. Second, parents should follow the child’s law of growth, do not destructive power, unlimited pressure. In addition, parents should actively guide the children’s growth process, the children can not blindly pull the demands and increase the burden, but they can not let go, give up, what is by him. In view of the above situation, we in 2005 9