一个男生问我:“女朋友总是嫌我不浪漫,怪我从没给过她惊喜。我该怎么办?”女人到底想要什么样的惊喜?我特意问了几个女性朋友。一个文艺范儿的女生说:“我喜欢在家看老片,但老片的资源不好找。有一天,我发现老公电脑桌面上有个文件夹,标注的是‘老婆爱看的电影’,打开一看,是我在豆瓣上标注想看的所有电影。他下载好了,准备传给我的。”那个文件夹,就是惊喜。我们以为,惊喜是刻意制造的浪漫,但很多时候,惊 A boy asked me: “Girlfriend always suspected I am not romantic, blame I never gave her a surprise. How can I do?” “In the end the woman what kind of surprise? I specifically asked a few female friends. A literary fan’s girl said: ”I like to watch old movies at home, but the film’s resources are not easy to find.One day, I found my husband’s desktop has a folder on the desktop, the label is ’wife love to see the movie’ , Opened the look, is all the movies I want to see on the watercress .He downloaded, ready to pass it to me. “” That folder is a surprise. We think, surprise is deliberately made romantic, but many times, scared