抱怨者不见得不善良,但常常不受欢迎。他们以为自己经历了世界上最大的困难,却忘记了听他抱怨的人也有这些经历。抱怨者认为自己是强者,只是社会太不公平。抱怨者不承认失败,敢于承认失败的人,会赢得别人的尊重,人们如同看到一个伤痕累累的、神色平静的男士,如同英雄。人们本来同情弱者,可抱怨者 Complainant not necessarily not good, but often unpopular. They think they have experienced the greatest difficulties in the world, but have forgotten that those who heard him complain also have these experiences. Complainants think they are strong, but society is not fair. The complainant does not admit defeat, dare to admit defeat, will win the respect of others, people like to see a bruised, calm look men, like a hero. People have compassion for the weak, complainers