消极语言和积极语言语言有积极和消极之分。消极的语言在沟通中对他人的伤害比较大,这种伤害会使他人产生消极的情绪。而消极情绪就是一个人对自我的不认同,它也可能是个人接下来对外部人际关系不良行为的源头。比如一个人对自己的行为不够满意,他自己开心、快乐的状态就会少,同时可能引起他对外部人际关系的积极行为就少,建设性的行 Negative language and positive language have positive and negative points. Negative language in communications to others more damage, this injury will make others have negative emotions. Negative emotion, on the other hand, is a person’s disagreement with self, and it may also be the source of the individual’s subsequent bad behavior toward external relationships. For example, a person is not satisfied with his behavior, he is happy, happy state will be less, while may cause him to external relationships less active, constructive line