“十年生死两茫茫,不思量,自难忘。”1075年正月二十日,苏东坡梦见了去世十年之久的前妻王弗,写下了这首悼亡诗作。自《诗经·绿衣》始,悼亡诗与别离诗一样,强化了诗人的哀伤体验。悼亡诗是中国诗歌的重要支脉,促成了早期古典诗歌的生成。魏晋时期的挽歌,诸如《七哀诗》之类,常以宴饮起句,宇文所安从中发现了一个重要诗歌命题——“死亡与宴会”;唐代悼亡诗的写作透露出诗人们顾影自怜 “Ten years of life and death two vast, do not think about, since memorable. ” 1075 lunar January 10, Su Dongpo dreamed of his ex-wife Wang Fu died ten years ago, wrote the first memorial to death poems. Since the Book of Songs, “Green Clothing”, mourning poems and poetry, like poems, strengthen the poet's sad experience. Mournful poetry is an important branch of Chinese poetry, contributed to the generation of early classical poetry. During the Wei and Jin Dynasties elegy, such as “Seven Sadies” and the like, often feast on the banquet, Yuwen Suo An found an important poetic proposition - “Death and Banquet ”; writing of the Tang Dynasty mourning poems revealed Poets Gu Ying self-pity