亲子关系是儿童社会化和人格发展的核心动因。对儿童的成长有着决定性的影响,它是在父母与子女的朝夕相处中建立起来的。然而,农村留守儿童长期与父母分离,亲子关系也许并不是他们最早或最亲密的人际关系。那么,在这些儿童心中“家”是怎样的概念?父母在他们眼中的地位如何? Parent-child relationship is the core motivation of children’s socialization and personality development. It has a decisive influence on children’s growth. It is established between the day and night of parents and children. However, left-behind children in rural areas have long separated from their parents, and parent-child relationship may not be their earliest or closest relationship. So, in these children’s hearts “home ” is the concept of what? Parents in their eyes how?