无论做什么,如果记得是为自己而做,就会毫无怨言。痛苦与快乐不在于外在物质的有无,而在于自己心境的修养。人生没有绝对的公平,但有相对公平。你得到的越多,也比别人承受的越多。在人生的任何时候都不要怕从头再来,因为每一个看似低的起点,都是通往更高峰的必经之路。让自己更平和一点儿,更豁达一点儿,对于别人的过错,也让自己更宽容一点儿。作为女孩子,首先要经济独立,然后才有资格谈争 No matter what, if you remember to do for yourself, there will be no complaints. Pain and happiness do not lie in the existence of external matter, but in the cultivation of one’s own state of mind. Life is not absolutely fair, but it is relatively fair. The more you get, the more you can afford it. Do not be afraid to start all over again at any moment in your life, for every seemingly low starting point is the only way to the higher peak. Make yourself a little more peaceful and open-minded, and make yourself more tolerant of others’ mistakes. As a girl, first of all be financially independent, and then be qualified to talk about it