我有时担心,家长们对孩子理所当然的关心,会使他们对未知事物感到莫名的恐惧。比如我们动辄呵斥孩子们:“离深水远点!”“别横穿马路!”“再摸那根电线你就会电死!”为人父母,我们总想保护自己的孩子,避免他接触成人世界里的有害事物。大部分儿童读物、儿童电影和电视节目,也常常表现出那种悉心呵护、脉脉温情和精于自制。由此,人们不难看出,这种态度是多么普遍。 I sometimes worry that parents take for granted their children’s concerns, will make them feel unexplained fear of unknown things. For example, we often scold the children: “away from the deep water!” “Do not cross the road!” “Touch the wire you will die!” Parenting, we always want to protect their children, to avoid his exposure to the adult world Inside the harmful things. Most children’s books, children’s films and television shows often show that kind of care, tenderness and self-control. As a result, it is not hard to see how common this attitude is.