文章利用2010年“百村抽样调查”数据,探讨农村已婚男性在婚姻缔结过程中遭遇“娶妻难”这一负面生活事件对其实施婚姻暴力的影响。研究发现,施暴已成为有成婚困难经历的男性解决夫妻冲突的主要方式;成婚困难的经历显著增加其实施婚姻暴力的可能性;施暴类型随着成婚困难程度的不同有所差异,有过成婚困难经历但程度不严重的男性,倾向于只实施冷暴力;而经历过严重成婚困难的男性实施冷暴力和实施肢体暴力的可能性均更高。 This article uses the data of 2010 “Baicun sampling survey” to discuss the impact of the married couple being married to the married couple who live in rural areas during the marriage process on the implementation of marital violence. The study found that violence has become the main way to solve the conflict between husbands and wives by men with difficult marriage experience. The experience of marriage difficulties significantly increases their possibility of enforcing marital violence. The types of violence vary according to the degree of marriage difficulty. Men who experienced less but less severe tended to only practice cold violence, while men who experienced severe marriage difficulties were more likely to practice cold violence and physical violence.