借，是人际交往中暂时使用别人的物品、金钱或有利的客观条件来为自己服务，达到某种目的的手段。古往今来，一些多谋善断者均能巧妙地运用借助艺术，来实现自己的夙愿。通常有如下借术： 一、借石反砸。这是比喻一种语言技巧。即借交际对方同一种媒介，相同的话题，相似的方式 Borrowing is the means by which someone else’s goods, money, or favorable objective conditions are temporarily used to serve oneself and achieve a certain purpose in interpersonal communication. Throughout the ages, some resourceful and skilled people have skillfully used art to achieve their aspirations. Usually borrowed as follows: First, borrow stone anti smashing. This is a metaphor for a language skill. That by the other party to communicate with the same media, the same topic, a similar way