最近,某县有位乡长,因为缺乏号召力而导致工作被动。由此他埋怨干部群众不尊重他,不支持他。果真如此么?恐怕未必。俗话说：“锅不热,饼不贴”。烙烧饼时,要把锅烧热,锅不热,饼就贴不上去。笔者认为,作为一乡之长,要使干部群众尊重你,支持你,很重要的一条,就是对干部群众要“热”。“热”,就是要放下“架子”,切实信任、尊重、关心、爱护干部群众,与干部群众打成一片。然而,现实中有的领导确实存在这样的误解：似乎领导与群众的关系“太随便了”就会失去领导的威信。抱着这种认识。一些领导遇事“三冷”(冷面孔、冷心肠、冷方法),使得领导与群众之间竖着一道“墙”。 Recently, there was a mayor in a certain county where the work was passive because of the lack of charisma. He thus complained that the cadres and masses did not respect him and did not support him. If so? I’m afraid not. As the saying goes: “pot is not hot, cake is not posted.” When bake biscuits, it is necessary to heat the pan, the pan is not hot, the cake can not be attached. In my opinion, as a leader of a country, it is important for cadres and the masses to respect you and support you. The important one is to make the cadres and the masses warm. “Heat” means putting down “the shelf”, earnestly trusting, respecting, caring and caring for the cadres and the masses and putting it into one with the cadres and the masses. However, some leaders in reality do have the misunderstanding that it seems that the relationship between leaders and the masses is “too arbitrary” to lose the prestige of leadership. Hold this understanding. Some leaders have dealt with the problem of “three coldnesses” (cold face, cold-heartedness and cold approach), causing a “wall” between leaders and the masses.