最近阅读了一本书《你可以更靠近我:教孩子怎么看待生命和死亡》,作者伊丽莎白·库伯勒·罗斯(ElisabethKiibler-RossM.D.)是国际著名的生死学大师,在书里教导我们如何贴近孩子的心灵,帮助孩子面对死亡,体验生命各种滋味。这让我想起,大部分的人总是忌讳谈死,很多大人对于孩子提及死亡,总是以隐瞒、恐吓、含糊不清的言语迅速略过,导致孩子对死亡产生很多恐惧的联想和焦虑,一直延续到成年,仍然对生命懵懂无知。生命是一间学校,死亡是通过考试,毕业回家 Recently read a book, “You Can Be Closer to Me: Teach Children to Think About Life and Death,” by Elisabeth Kiibler-Ross M.D., an internationally acclaimed master of life and death taught in the book How do we close to the child’s heart, to help children face death, experience the taste of life. It reminds me that most people are always taboo talking about death. Many adults tell their children about their deaths. They often quickly skip concealment, intimidation and ambiguity, leading to associations and anxieties that cause children to have much fear of death , Has continued into adulthood, still ignorant of life. Life is a school, death is passed the exam, graduation home