大斌从部队转业回来后,分配到新岗位工作。由于性格较为内向,与同事们的交往较少,感到孤独异常,常常回想起部队时光,人人欢颜笑语、毫无孤独感的感觉。事实上,人人都会有孤独的时候,但并非人人都能够战胜自己的孤独感。心理学家认为,真正的孤独,往往产生于那些有肉体接触,却没有情感和思想交流的夫 Dabin returned from the army back to work assigned to the new post. Due to the more introverted character, less interaction with colleagues, loneliness and anomaly, often reminiscent of army time, everyone laughs and laughs without the feeling of loneliness. In fact, everyone will have loneliness, but not everyone will be able to overcome his loneliness. Psychologists believe that real loneliness often arises from those who have physical contact but do not have the emotional and intellectual exchange