赵昱鲲“积极心理学之父”塞利格曼的亲传弟子,现任清华大学社科学院积极心理学研究中心办公室主任,国际积极心理协会驻华特别代表,中央电视台《文化视点》幸福课主讲人。著有《消极时代的积极人生》,译有塞利格曼《持续的幸福》。陪玩,让我再过一次童年“你希望这孩子是男孩还是女孩?”太太怀孕期间,家人经常问我这个问题。当然,每次我都是大义凛然地说:“只要孩子健康就好,男孩女孩都一样,我都喜欢。”其实,在我内心里,我还是悄悄地期盼生个男孩的。原因很简单:我有很多东西等着和他一起玩儿呢。我自己的童年完全是玩过来的。好在那个年 Zhao Yu Kun “father of positive psychology ” Seligman’s pro-disciple, the incumbent Director of Office of Positive Psychology Research Center of Tsinghua University Academy of Social Sciences, special representative of International Positive Psychological Association in China, speaker of “Culture Perspective” happiness class of CCTV . Author of “positive life in a negative era,” translated Seligman “sustained happiness.” Stay with me, let me once more childhood “Do you want this boy to be a boy or a girl?” “My wife often asked me this question during pregnancy. Of course, every time I am righteous: ”As long as the child is healthy, the boys and girls are the same, I like it." Actually, in my heart I still quietly expect to have a boy. The reason is simple: I have so many things waiting to be played with him. My own childhood was completely over. Fortunately, that year