一我想起我二姑。我的二姑叫依兰,依兰是我的二姑。更准确地说,依兰是我亲房叔爷家的一位姑姑。在家族观念很重的村里,辈分是一条隐形的界限。家族发展昌盛,到我们家这一支,辈分已经很低了。村里基本是本家人,出门见面都是亲戚。我们堂兄弟堂姐妹,是家族里最小一辈,所以,只有唤人的份,不管对方年纪比自己小或大不了几天几个月,得称呼他爹爹叔伯、姑奶姑姑。如果你直呼名讳,是为不懂事,若被其他族人告到父母面 I think of my second one. My two girls are Yilan, Yilan is my two girls. More specifically, Ylang is an aunt at my uncle’s uncle’s home. In the family concept of the village, seniority is an invisible line. Family prosperity, to our family this one, seniority has been very low. The village is basically the family, go out to meet all relatives. Our cousins ​​and cousins ​​are the youngest members of the family. Therefore, we should call only his daddy uncle and auntie aunt, regardless of whether the younger or younger are more or less in a few days or months than themselves. If you call taboos, is naive, if the other tribe reported to their parents face