案例临近过年了,项大爷却愁绪满腹,一点高兴不起来。原来,家住北方农村的项大爷有一子项甲、一女项乙,女儿一向乖巧听话,在去年老伴去世后,女儿便是项大爷的贴心小棉袄了。然而,女儿在去深圳打工的几年里竟然与外地一小伙子“私定终身”!对于男方,项大爷在老伴的葬礼上是见过的,但他当时就表示不同意。然而女儿捎话回来要去男方家过年,这在深受“父母之命,媒妁之言”传统思 The case is approaching the New Year, Uncle Xiang is full of worries, a little happy not to. It turned out that the majority of those who live in the rural north have a sub-item A, a woman B, the daughter has always been obedient well-behaved, his wife died last year, the daughter is the uncle’s little cotton jacket. However, my daughter went to work in Shenzhen for a few years even with a young man in the field “privately-owned ” For the man, the uncle was seen at his wife’s funeral, but he did not agree. However, her daughter’s message back to go to the man’s house New Year, which is deeply “the parents of life, the media’s words,” the traditional thinking