许多人都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓,也确实有不少人觉得结婚后爱人不像以前那么体贴入微、积极主动了。阿玫是一位来自外省的姑娘,刚刚结婚几个月,因特别不适应婚后的家庭生活,找了个机会到北京学习。她觉得婚后生活并不像自己想象的那样美满,是自己的问题呢?还是爱人的问题? 阿玫:大夫,在别人眼中,我们是“郎才女貌”令人羡慕的一对儿,可是我却觉得有种受骗的感觉。因为结婚前他对我百般呵护,细心周到,说话办事总是讨我的喜欢。而现在他好像革命成功了一样,对我虽然也很好,但总觉得和以前不一样了。 Many people say marriage is the tomb of love, and indeed many people think that after marriage, the lover is not so considerate and pro-active. A Mei is a girl from other provinces. She has just been married for several months and has found a chance to study in Beijing because she is particularly ill after her married life. She thinks marriage life is not as happy as his own imagination, is their problem? Or a lover? A Mei: Doctor, in the eyes of others, we are “enchantress”, but I was Feel kind of cheated feeling. Because before marriage, he treats me in every possible way, attentively, talking to always discuss things I like. And now he seems as successful as the revolution, although it is good for me, but he always feels different from before.