在日常生活中,人们常常会遇到这样的情景:你在与别人争论某个问题时,分明自己的观点是正确的,但就是不能说服对方,有时还会被对方“驳”得哑口无言。这是什么原因呢?心理学家认为,要争取别人赞同自己的观点,只有观点正确还不够,还要掌握巧妙的交 In everyday life, people often encounter such a scenario: when you argue with someone about a problem, you are clear about what you think is right, but you can not convince each other and sometimes you can “mute” Mouth speechless. What is the reason? Psychologists believe that to win others agree with their own point of view, only the correct view is not enough, but also to master the clever hands