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花轿的故事旧时妇女为表白婚姻和身份的正当性,常说的一句话是,“阮是三茶六礼一顶大轿娶来的”。这里讲的“六礼”是纳采、问名、纳吉、纳币、请期和亲迎。亲迎就是迎亲,即把新娘娶回家,抱得美人归。但是,亲迎是新郎亲自去迎娶。新郎派傧相等前去迎亲,自己在家候着,这叫“俟堂”。鲁迅的笔名之一是“俟堂”。取此一笔名,我推测因他和朱安的婚姻属于包办婚姻有关。《金门县志》记:金门民间例不行亲迎之礼,以男童、傧相、媒妁前往迎娶,男童乘轿,谓之挑灯,傧相骑马,谓之顶马,鼓乐仪仗前导,纱灯书男家姓氏及先祖郡号官衔,以长竿挑鞭炮沿阵燃放。
The story of the sedan chair The old woman to justify the marriage and identity, often say the sentence is “Nguyen is the three Chai Liuli a big sedan married ”. Here to talk about “Six Li ” is Nietzsche, asked name, Najib, the Senate, please schedule and kiss. Pro-welcome is the pro-marriage, that is, the bride married home, hold the United States go. However, pro welcome is the groom to marry in person. The bridegroom faction to go to meet the relatives, waiting at home, called . One of Lu Xun’s pseudonyms is “俟 ”. Take this one name, I presume that because of his marriage with Zhu An belong to arranged marriage. “Golden Gate County,” mind: Kinmen civil cases no welcome ceremony, to boys, widowed, media to marry, boy riding sedan, that the light of the car, riding a horse, that the top horse, leading the drums ceremonies, yarn lantern book Male surnames and ancestral county official title, with long rods to pick firecrackers along the array release.