『如果我们真的去爱,我们必须学会怎样去宽恕。』——特里萨嬤嬤宽恕并不等同于忘记过去。实际上,如果我们曾经受到伤害,我们不应该遗忘。我们可以从过去的教训中学会怎样在未来避免受到伤害。宽恕也不是意味着为伤害过我们的人开脱罪责。我们明白,伤害已经发生,有人要对此负责并且承担罪责。当我们宽恕时,我们既没有牺牲任何东西,也没有放弃自我价值。恰恰相反,我们做出 "If we really love, we must learn how to forgive. 』 - Teresa’s forgiveness is not the same as forgetting the past. In fact, if we have been hurt, we should not forget it. We can learn from past lessons how to avoid harm in the future. Forgiveness does not mean excusing people who hurt us. We understand that the injury has already occurred and someone is responsible for it and bears the culpability. When we forgive, we did not sacrifice anything, nor did we give up our self-worth. On the contrary, we make