在现代教育观念里,父亲对孩子的影响除了提供可靠的物质基础外,更重要的责任是给予孩子勇敢、真诚、自信、追求自由和友谊的品质,这些情商品质,已是现代人成功的必备素质。而现实中,由于父亲这一角色在社会生活中承受着过多的压力,常常在社会的摸爬滚打中迷失了自我,忽略了责任,从而使孩子在不同程度上受到冷落、伤害。大量研究结果显示,与父亲接触少或受教育不当的孩子,除了学习成绩普遍偏低外,体重、身高等方面的发育也明显落后于同龄人,且存在容易焦虑、自尊心不强、自控能力弱等情感障碍,这些症状被专家称为“缺乏 In the modern concept of education, in addition to providing a reliable material foundation, the father’s influence on children is more important to give the child bravery, sincerity, self-confidence and the pursuit of the quality of freedom and friendship. These emotional intelligence qualities are already the success of modern people. Preparation of quality. In reality, due to the excessive pressure exerted by the father in social life, the father often loses himself in the fickleness of the society and neglects the responsibility, so that the children are left out to varying degrees. A large number of studies have shown that children who have less contact with their father or who are not well educated, in addition to generally low academic performance, also lag behind their peers in weight, height and other aspects and are prone to anxiety, poor self-esteem and weak self-control. And other emotional disorders, these symptoms are experts called ”lack of