很多时候,当我们想要说服一位难缠的客户谈一笔大买卖,或是想要找朋友帮忙时,都会想到请他们吃一顿饭,再叫上一帮共同认识的朋友作陪,很多看似棘手的问题,就能在饭桌上轻松解决。其实,不光是我们中国人,西方国家的一些研究中发现,人们在一起吃饭的过程中,更容易建立良好的关系。荷兰格罗宁根大学和加拿大的研究者发现,一起吃饭能拉近 Very often, when we want to persuade a tough customer to talk about a big deal, or want to find a friend to help, they all think of asking them to eat a meal, and then ask a bunch of friends they know each other, many Seemingly intractable problems, you can easily solve the dinner table. In fact, not only are we Chinese, some studies in western countries find that it is easier for people to establish good relationships during their meal together. Researchers at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands and in Canada have found it easier to eat together