看到这个案例,我的脑海里立即跳出了这几年一直在争论的“男孩危机”问题。男孩危机指的是男生在学业、体质、心理及社会适应能力等各方面都落后于同龄女生的现象。同时男孩女性化也成为男孩危机的突出问题。于是,很多有识之士疾呼,男孩应该具有阳刚之气,要做血性男儿。本案例中小李的父亲应该就属于这种观点的支持者。但是,他所追求的“个性发展”其实是值得商榷的。在他看来,男孩的阳刚之气理应表现为一种尚武精神的外露及延伸,或者说给男孩以适 See this case, my mind immediately jumped out of the “boy crisis” issue that has been debated in recent years. The boy crisis refers to the phenomenon that boys are lagging behind girls of the same age in all aspects of schooling, physical fitness, psychology and social adaptability. At the same time, the feminization of boys has also become a prominent issue of boy crisis. As a result, many people of insight cry, the boy should have masculinity, to be bloody men. Li’s father in this case should belong to the supporters of this view. However, what he pursues “personality development” is actually debatable. In his opinion, the boy’s masculinity should manifest itself as a military presence and extension