晚上,女儿在写作业时,我按惯例随口问了一句:“女儿,今天在学校做题时又做错了吗?”女儿很无奈地回答我:“没有。”然后走到我面前很调皮地问:“妈妈,为什么你不问我今天又做对了多少呢?”我当时心头一震,是啊!为什么不换一种方式呢?也许,换一种方式效果会更好!于是我笑了笑回答女儿:“对不起,孩子!妈妈不经意间说出了口,明天,我们约定,向妈妈报告你每天的新收获,好吗?” 一句不经意或习以为常的问话引起我深深的反思,身为一名教师和一名母亲,我每天非常关注孩子的成长可我经常在想,怎样教育孩子才能达到预想的效果呢?是不是我对孩子的要求太高了,还是教育 In the evening, when my daughter was doing homework, I casually asked one question: “Daughter, did you make a mistake in school today?” The daughter answered me with no choice but “No.” Then came I am very naughty in front of asked: “Mom, why do not you ask me how much do you do today?” I was startled, yes ah! Why not another way? Perhaps for another way the effect Will be better! So I smiled and answered her daughter: “I’m sorry, child! Mom inadvertently uttered the mouth, tomorrow, we agreed to report your mother a new harvest every day, okay?” A casual or accustomed I was deeply introspective about my questioning. As a teacher and a mother, I pay great attention to the growth of children everyday. But I often wonder how to educate my children to achieve the desired effect. Is not my request to children too High, or education