婚姻大事,古今所重。培根在《论婚姻》中说:“美满的婚姻是难得一遇的。”尤其是在古代女性在面临各个方面的束缚之后,这样的婚姻悲剧显得更甚。本文从女性的婚姻入手,从婚配的不自主性,婚后女性的依附性以及品评女性的男性视角出发,指出古代女性的幸福只是一种幻象,它是建立在女性一次次的对现实的妥协上的,是以牺牲自己的一切而获得的虚假的幸福。 Marital events, the weight of ancient and modern. In his article “On Marriage,” Bacon said: “A perfect marriage is a rare event.” This is especially true after ancient women faced various aspects of their bondage. Starting from the marriage of women, this article points out that the happiness of ancient women is only an illusion, based on the involuntary marriage, the attachment of married women, and the men who judge women. It is based on women’s repeated compromise with reality On the one hand, is the false happiness obtained at the expense of everything.