《家庭与家教》编辑部: 我和妻子均为工人,有一13岁男孩。为孩子的成长我们费尽了心血,孩子要什么我们给买什么,托人想办法把孩子送到市里最好的重点学校去读书。可孩子的成绩并不是我们期望的那样好,而且性格懦弱,胆小没出息。对孩子我们真是恨铁不成钢,打也打过、骂也骂过,可没有什么成效。最近市面上流行《哈佛女孩》之类的家教书。我们买了好几本认真阅读,也想仿照上面的办法教育孩子。不知行否?我们心里没底,特来信询问。 Family and Tutor editorial department: Both my wife and I are workers, with a 13-year-old boy. For the growth of our children we have worked hard, what children to buy what we want, trustees find ways to send their children to the best schools in the city to go to school. Children’s grades are not as good as we expected, and the character is weak and timid. We really hate iron children not steel, fight also played, scolded scolded, but no results. Recently on the market popular “Harvard Girl” kind of homework books. We bought several carefully read, but also want to follow the above methods to educate children. I do not know whether or not? We do not know the bottom, special letter to ask.