社会化是个体不断适应社会要求的过程。儿童社会化的主要任务是为个体成为社会正式成员做准备。在转型期的中国,时代的巨变带给家庭教育和学校教育一系列的困境,影响了他们社会化功能的发挥。本文通过一个小学送礼案例,分析当前儿童社会化过程中遭遇的困境,并提出了一些对策和建议。 Socialization is the process by which individuals constantly adapt to the requirements of society. The main task of child socialization is to prepare individuals for becoming full members of society. In the transitional period of China, the great changes in the times bring a series of difficulties to family education and school education, affecting their socialization. Through a case of primary school gifts, this paper analyzes the current situation of children in the process of socialization, and puts forward some countermeasures and suggestions.