人到老年,退出社会舞台,回归家庭,交际面于是变窄,所以对儿女的关注自然就多了起来。老人们既关心儿女的健康,也牵挂儿女的生活、工作和孙辈的成长,有的还竭尽全力,为儿女们做后勤工作,被儿女们“呼之即来,挥之即去”而毫无怨言。虽说对儿女的牵挂是正常的,但这里也有一个如何正确处理的问题;况且他们都成了家,还有一个异 When people reach old age, withdraw from the social arena and return to their families, the communicative face becomes narrower, so their concern with children naturally increases. Elderly people are concerned about their children’s health as well as their children’s lives, work and the growth of their grandchildren. Some also make every effort to do their logistical work for their children and are called by their children. And no complaints. Although it is normal for children to care about it, there is also a question of how to deal with it correctly; besides, they are all home and there is a difference