金灵子姐姐,我最近很烦恼。我是一个自尊心很强的人,每次考试我都在班里名列前茅。在学校组织的一些活动中,我总能成为别人羡慕的对象。可是,每当看到别的同学拥有漂亮的文具、漂亮的衣服或者是别的同学被老师表扬、被同学称赞时,我心里总觉得有些失落。有时候,我还会觉得自卑,甚至很嫉妒他们。那些被老师表扬的同学,我好像也不愿意和他们做朋友。我是不是不能允许别人比我强呢?——一个烦恼的小孩金灵子:自尊心是自我意识中最敏感的一个部分。一个人有了自尊心,就能争上游,不达到目的誓不罢休。在现实生活中,我们 Jin Lingzi sister, I am very upset recently. I am a very self-esteem person, and I am among the best in my class for each exam. In some activities organized by the school, I can always be the envy of others. However, whenever I saw other classmates have beautiful stationery, beautiful clothes or other classmates praised by teachers, praised by classmates, I always felt a little lost in my heart. Sometimes, I feel inferior, even jealous of them. Those who are praised by teachers, I seem to be reluctant to be friends with them. Can not I allow others to be stronger than me? - An upset kid, Jin Lingzi: Self-esteem is the most sensitive part of self-awareness. A person with self-esteem, you can fight the upper reaches, do not achieve their goals never give up. In real life, we