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一天,一个朋友带着31个月大的儿子来我家做客,按照大人的想法,两个年龄相仿的孩子在一起玩,是件很开心的事。可事实告诉我们,除了看起来很开心的少部分时间,大多数时候都是在调节这两个小孩因玩具归属和争夺而发生的矛盾。我们也都理解,2.5-3岁这个年龄阶段,物权意识凸显,自我意识也突出,再加上还没有形成换位思考的能力,在玩耍中,难免竞争多于合作。可在这些普遍规律之外,你是否真的懂得,为什么平时乖巧可爱的孩子,会突然变得倔强和坏脾气呢?或者说,你知道孩子情绪在表达什么吗?而你,又做对了吗?
One day, a friend came to my house with her 31-month-old son. It was a pleasure to have two children of similar age play together as adults. As a matter of fact, we can tell from facts that most of the time, apart from the less happy moments, the conflicts between the two children due to toy ownership and contention. We all also understand that in the age of 2.5 to 3 years, real estate rights awareness and self-awareness are prominent. Coupled with the fact that we have not yet formed the ability to think empirically, it is inevitable that there will be more competition in the play than in cooperation. In addition to these common laws, do you really understand why a cute and childlike child suddenly becomes stubborn and bad-tempered? Or do you know that the child’s emotions are expressing something? And you are right ?