一是一心一意的一大弟是姨妈的大儿子。当年姨妈飘在省城,与姨夫两地分居,又有小弟刚刚出生,智障的大弟孩提时便由外婆抱回老家抚养。二十多年过去,我们都长大飞离了家,而大弟,生活仍然不能自理。我爸因病去世早,外公外婆年岁已大,照顾大弟力不从心,我妈责无旁贷地搬到外婆家,照顾外公外婆的起居以及大弟的生活。我小时候也在外婆家长大,与大弟吃同一口锅里 One is a big brother bent on aunt’s eldest son. Aunt floating in the provincial capital that year, and uncle separated from the two, another brother was born, mentally handicapped big brother when the grandmother hold home care. In the past twenty years, we all grew up and flew away from home, and brother, life still can not take care of themselves. My dad died of illness early, my grandfather and granddaughter are old and take care of her own strength. My mother is not responsible for relocating to her grandmother’s house and taking care of her grandparents’ daily life and life. When I was a child, I grew up in my grandmother’s home and ate the same pot with my younger brother