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事件:上小班的西西在幼儿园是一个乖巧可爱的孩子:衣服自己穿,饭自己吃,时常还当老师的小帮手,帮老师摆放玩具等等。但是,在家里,就成了另外一种情况:吃饭要喂,不喂就不肯吃;把家里的东西乱丢后也不去整理。而且家里人不管谁的话也不愿意听,最后,妈妈不得不把班上的老师抬出来警告西西:“你再不好好吃饭的话就告诉老师了。”或者:“让老师来批评你!”等等之类的话。这些话一说在短时间内是起到了一定的作用的,但是接下来就出现了以下的现象:西西有时候一来到教室时就躲到一旁,不怎么愿意出现在老师的面前,生怕老师在小朋友面前批评她。而且,对老师也没有以前亲热了。
Event: Xixi on a small class in kindergarten is a well-behaved cute child: clothes to wear their own, eat their own meals, often as a teacher’s little helper, to help teachers put toys and so on. However, at home, has become another case: eat to feed, do not feed will not eat; not litter the contents of the house after finishing. And the family would not listen anyway, and finally, Mum had to carry the teacher in his class to warn him: “Tell the teacher if you do not eat well.” Or “Let the teacher criticize you!” Words like that. These words have played a role in a short period of time, but then the following phenomena have appeared: Sixi sometimes hid aside as soon as he came to the classroom, less willing to appear in front of the teacher for fear of the teacher Criticize her in front of children. Moreover, there is no previous affection for the teacher.