许多年轻的妈妈向心理专家咨询:为什么孩子很小就有不少“坏脾气”,比如烦躁、任性、自私、害羞、无理哭闹,等等。其实凡此种种,若要追根求源的话,大部分可以追溯到是由于婴儿时期的喂养失当所造成的。因为当时的喂养方式不正确,所以对婴儿的心理形成产生了深远的影响。 Many young mothers ask psychologists why there are many “bad temper” when they are young, such as irritability, self-willedness, selfishness, shyness, unreasonable crying, and so on. In fact, most of these species can be traced back to being caused by improper feeding in infancy. Because at the time of feeding is not correct, so the baby’s psychological formation had a profound impact.